Many women who want to undergo vaginoplasty or labiaplasty or any other cosmetic enhancement feel the need of approval from others. However, many groups and many women disapprove of changing anything about your body. They find it a sign of weakness. They feel that you should keep what you have and be proud of it. They feel that it is your brain and you that are important and not how your body looks. Of course, that is one opinion. I beg to be of the opposite opinion. The strenght of a woman’s character is to believe that she has choices and the choice is only hers to decide what to do with her body. Changing ones look is not a sign of weakness but a normal desire to look good and feel good. It is not to please anyone else but to please herself. After all no one else walks in her shoes but she. It reminds me of political arguments. Of course everyone has their passionate opinion and one should argue their point but never expect to change the other persons mind. This goes for any cosmetic changes. One can argue for or against but do not expect to change what one feels deep in side. Therefore, one should build tolerance and an open mind and decide that what is good for one may not be good for another. What one likes and prefers may not necessarily hold true for another. Women would do each other a service if they support each other in all their decisions and realize that we are all different with different wants, needs and desires. Soooo-if you want to have a tighter vaginal canal, more sensation and a healthier and happier sex life, and if you feel that this can be accomplished with any of those surgeries, as long as you pick a qualified and experienced surgeon go to it girl. The future is yours.